ココヨワチャンネル

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【悩みのある毎日をちょっと気楽に】 『ココヨワチャンネル』では、 カウンセラー・HSPアドバイザーのRyotaが豊富な人生経験や心理学を元に、皆さんの悩みにお話をします。 心が弱っている人を助けたい。人に言えない悩みを解消したい。 そのような思いで日々、動画を発信しております。 「仕事」「人間関係」から「人生」「...

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[Don't do this] These are the 7 actions that will make you lose trust! If you don't improve, peop... 18:53

[Don't do this] These are the 7 actions that will make you lose trust! If you don't improve, peop...

``Easy Check'' Here's how to figure out someone's personality! 0:42

``Easy Check'' Here's how to figure out someone's personality!

[Must See] 7 characteristics of people who are basically happy being alone / What type of person ... 19:28

[Must See] 7 characteristics of people who are basically happy being alone / What type of person ...

"Tend to worry": These are the most common points of trouble in parent-child relationships / What... 0:40

"Tend to worry": These are the most common points of trouble in parent-child relationships / What...

[Quiet people are the best] 7 benefits of not talking too much to others / Why do people who say ... 19:05

[Quiet people are the best] 7 benefits of not talking too much to others / Why do people who say ...

``Beat the Frustration'' What you should think about when faced with unreasonable opinions/What's... 0:48

``Beat the Frustration'' What you should think about when faced with unreasonable opinions/What's...

"This condition is dangerous" - Characteristics of people who should rest immediately and how to ... 18:24

"This condition is dangerous" - Characteristics of people who should rest immediately and how to ...

Reasons why you should be careful of people who are careless with money / Common traits of troubl... 0:43

Reasons why you should be careful of people who are careless with money / Common traits of troubl...

[Never give your all] 7 characteristics of people who eat up your kindness / Get to know the type... 19:23

[Never give your all] 7 characteristics of people who eat up your kindness / Get to know the type...

"Caution" What are the points that give people a bad impression? These are the parts that people ... 0:44

"Caution" What are the points that give people a bad impression? These are the parts that people ...

[Invincible Mentality] 7 Amazing Ways to Stabilize Your Mind / Here's the trick to quickly forget... 19:57

[Invincible Mentality] 7 Amazing Ways to Stabilize Your Mind / Here's the trick to quickly forget...

[Try it now] 7 ways for introverts to avoid getting fatigued in relationships/Rejuvenate yourself... 20:54

[Try it now] 7 ways for introverts to avoid getting fatigued in relationships/Rejuvenate yourself...

[Easy to understand] What are the characteristics of a cunning person? Here's how to spot someone... 0:40

[Easy to understand] What are the characteristics of a cunning person? Here's how to spot someone...

[Warning] 7 hidden dark sides of companies where people keep quitting / What are the problems tha... 20:35

[Warning] 7 hidden dark sides of companies where people keep quitting / What are the problems tha...

[Beware of this] What are the things you should never tolerate in life / What are the actions tha... 0:41

[Beware of this] What are the things you should never tolerate in life / What are the actions tha...

[Convincing] 7 reasons why smarter people are more indifferent to others / What's the secret to n... 20:33

[Convincing] 7 reasons why smarter people are more indifferent to others / What's the secret to n...

[Unrequited love] 7 ways kindness can fail / A typical example of regretting something after it h... 16:42

[Unrequited love] 7 ways kindness can fail / A typical example of regretting something after it h...

[Psychology] These are the characteristics of a sociopath / What is the true nature of people who... 0:40

[Psychology] These are the characteristics of a sociopath / What is the true nature of people who...

Don't force yourself! How to live when you don't like people / 7 ways to deal with relationships ... 19:14

Don't force yourself! How to live when you don't like people / 7 ways to deal with relationships ...

Things to be careful of in relationships between women/Here's what you should observe first! 0:35

Things to be careful of in relationships between women/Here's what you should observe first!

[Don't do this] 7 things you should never tolerate that will ruin your life / Just put an end to ... 20:30

[Don't do this] 7 things you should never tolerate that will ruin your life / Just put an end to ...

[Common] How to listen to a story that is likely to make people dislike you? Here are some attitu... 0:32

[Common] How to listen to a story that is likely to make people dislike you? Here are some attitu...

[Choosing not to meet people] 7 ways to take a break without getting tired from relationships / H... 18:44

[Choosing not to meet people] 7 ways to take a break without getting tired from relationships / H...

[Lurking around you] These are the characteristics of people who steal your kindness! What kind o... 0:35

[Lurking around you] These are the characteristics of people who steal your kindness! What kind o...

[This is the correct answer] 7 points to keep in mind to reduce worries in relationships / What i... 20:33

[This is the correct answer] 7 points to keep in mind to reduce worries in relationships / What i...

[Things to watch out for] Signs that someone is taking advantage of your kindness / This is when ... 0:29

[Things to watch out for] Signs that someone is taking advantage of your kindness / This is when ...

[Instant relief] 7 words of awareness that will suddenly make your worrying life easier / This is... 18:06

[Instant relief] 7 words of awareness that will suddenly make your worrying life easier / This is...

[Easy] How to avoid being hurt by insensitive comments / Here's a tip on how not to take opinions... 0:34

[Easy] How to avoid being hurt by insensitive comments / Here's a tip on how not to take opinions...

[Warning] 7 moments when you say things you shouldn't / These are the times when you end up revea... 19:02

[Warning] 7 moments when you say things you shouldn't / These are the times when you end up revea...

[I've had enough] 7 correct ways to deal with the situation when you feel like you might be a soc... 23:21

[I've had enough] 7 correct ways to deal with the situation when you feel like you might be a soc...

[Why] What is the psychology of people who look down on others despite having talent? What type o... 0:39

[Why] What is the psychology of people who look down on others despite having talent? What type o...

[It would be troublesome if you were found out] 7 things in your private life you should keep qui... 17:39

[It would be troublesome if you were found out] 7 things in your private life you should keep qui...

[Beware] What is the real identity of people who yell easily? What people who make you feel intim... 0:41

[Beware] What is the real identity of people who yell easily? What people who make you feel intim...

[Backfires] 7 reasons why giving to others doesn't work out / Is it possible that giving can dama... 19:35

[Backfires] 7 reasons why giving to others doesn't work out / Is it possible that giving can dama...

Why you should be careful of people who give a lot of orders / Tips for spotting people who like ... 0:42

Why you should be careful of people who give a lot of orders / Tips for spotting people who like ...

Say goodbye to "rude attitudes"! 7 ways to avoid being treated like you're disposable / Repel peo... 20:20

Say goodbye to "rude attitudes"! 7 ways to avoid being treated like you're disposable / Repel peo...

[Common] Signs that you are being dominated by others / These are the behaviors you will see when... 0:38

[Common] Signs that you are being dominated by others / These are the behaviors you will see when...

[Beware] What are the "slightly scary habits" that lower your self-esteem? These are the thoughts... 21:14

[Beware] What are the "slightly scary habits" that lower your self-esteem? These are the thoughts...

Did you know there are things you shouldn't forgive even to close friends/things you shouldn't sa... 0:39

Did you know there are things you shouldn't forgive even to close friends/things you shouldn't sa...

[Could it be that person?!] 7 ways to spot a two-faced person / What kind of people do unexpected... 18:50

[Could it be that person?!] 7 ways to spot a two-faced person / What kind of people do unexpected...

[Are you doing this?] Bad habits that are destroying your brain / Here are some things most peopl... 0:38

[Are you doing this?] Bad habits that are destroying your brain / Here are some things most peopl...

[Must Check] 7 Characteristics of People Who Love Solitude / What People Who Prefer Being Alone A... 18:17

[Must Check] 7 Characteristics of People Who Love Solitude / What People Who Prefer Being Alone A...

[Behavioral psychology] How to listen to stories that will make the other person dislike you? On ... 0:35

[Behavioral psychology] How to listen to stories that will make the other person dislike you? On ...

[Very important] 7 ways to develop the ability to love people / Here are some tips to build good ... 19:59

[Very important] 7 ways to develop the ability to love people / Here are some tips to build good ...

[Caution] What are the characteristics of people you shouldn't marry? Here are some points you sh... 0:45

[Caution] What are the characteristics of people you shouldn't marry? Here are some points you sh...

[You have no choice but to leave] 7 types of heartless relationships / People who never accept you 19:23

[You have no choice but to leave] 7 types of heartless relationships / People who never accept you

[Warning] Things you should never do to a sneaky person / What actions will escalate their demands? 0:42

[Warning] Things you should never do to a sneaky person / What actions will escalate their demands?

[Warning] 7 characteristics of psychopaths lurking around you / How to spot cold-hearted people w... 20:43

[Warning] 7 characteristics of psychopaths lurking around you / How to spot cold-hearted people w...

[Don't miss it!] Signs that you are mentally exhausted / What are the physical ailments that tend... 0:34

[Don't miss it!] Signs that you are mentally exhausted / What are the physical ailments that tend...

[Not a given] 7 characteristics of people who will make you happy and that you should never let g... 17:49

[Not a given] 7 characteristics of people who will make you happy and that you should never let g...

[Try it] What are the surprising habits that lead to peace of mind? Tips on relieving stress thro... 0:45

[Try it] What are the surprising habits that lead to peace of mind? Tips on relieving stress thro...

[Don't get too involved] 7 adult ways to keep distance from others / How does emotional growth af... 20:52

[Don't get too involved] 7 adult ways to keep distance from others / How does emotional growth af...

[Life's worries] How to deal with people you can't forgive / Why you don't have to choose the opp... 0:39

[Life's worries] How to deal with people you can't forgive / Why you don't have to choose the opp...

[Specific examples] 7 ways to avoid making enemies/What are the techniques to peacefully avoid co... 18:17

[Specific examples] 7 ways to avoid making enemies/What are the techniques to peacefully avoid co...

[Common] Characteristics of people who don't like being treated with care / What type of people d... 0:39

[Common] Characteristics of people who don't like being treated with care / What type of people d...

[Learn it!] 7 correct techniques for not caring about others and ignoring them / What is the secr... 18:38

[Learn it!] 7 correct techniques for not caring about others and ignoring them / What is the secr...

Beware of crafty people who steal your time / The surprising types of people who steal from you 0:40

Beware of crafty people who steal your time / The surprising types of people who steal from you

[Fact] 7 Strengths of Kind People / Here's why you should never give up on kindness 19:26

[Fact] 7 Strengths of Kind People / Here's why you should never give up on kindness

[Common] Why you shouldn't forgive everything with kindness/What are the problems that the other ... 0:32

[Common] Why you shouldn't forgive everything with kindness/What are the problems that the other ...

[Shocking Fact] 7 reasons why being a little lonely in relationships is healthy / What are the pr... 18:45

[Shocking Fact] 7 reasons why being a little lonely in relationships is healthy / What are the pr...

[Many problems] Why you should avoid sloppy people / How to spot the type of person who can't con... 0:33

[Many problems] Why you should avoid sloppy people / How to spot the type of person who can't con...

[Beware] 7 characteristics of people with bad personalities/What are the words and actions that s... 21:35

[Beware] 7 characteristics of people with bad personalities/What are the words and actions that s...

【大人の距離感】建前の自分が人間関係で重要な理由/自分を守るため必要なこととは? 0:43

【大人の距離感】建前の自分が人間関係で重要な理由/自分を守るため必要なこととは?

[Don't tell anyone!] 7 unexpected things you shouldn't tell anyone / What's the cause of the rece... 20:27

[Don't tell anyone!] 7 unexpected things you shouldn't tell anyone / What's the cause of the rece...

[Eye-opening] Why is good manners important in human relationships? Learn how your behavior can h... 0:33

[Eye-opening] Why is good manners important in human relationships? Learn how your behavior can h...

[Common] Three habits that make you tired in relationships and ways to deal with them / These are... 16:59

[Common] Three habits that make you tired in relationships and ways to deal with them / These are...

[No one will tell you this] 7 ways to get more allies around you / What can you do to avoid being... 18:37

[No one will tell you this] 7 ways to get more allies around you / What can you do to avoid being...

[Are you able to do this?] How to avoid making enemies in relationships / Don't spread hostility ... 0:37

[Are you able to do this?] How to avoid making enemies in relationships / Don't spread hostility ...

[Easy Check] 7 signs of bad relationships/What are the words and actions that actually increase w... 19:17

[Easy Check] 7 signs of bad relationships/What are the words and actions that actually increase w...

[Warning] This is the reason why cheaters keep cheating! Don't just accept it as okay 0:38

[Warning] This is the reason why cheaters keep cheating! Don't just accept it as okay

[Let's imitate] 7 things that smart people keep in mind in their relationships / Secrets to makin... 19:21

[Let's imitate] 7 things that smart people keep in mind in their relationships / Secrets to makin...

What are the words and actions that can end a relationship in an instant? What you should never d... 0:37

What are the words and actions that can end a relationship in an instant? What you should never d...

[Absolutely not] The psychology of liars and three ways to deal with them / Why do they say or do... 20:27

[Absolutely not] The psychology of liars and three ways to deal with them / Why do they say or do...

[Common] How to deal with nasty parents / Be careful because you are in a close relationship 0:43

[Common] How to deal with nasty parents / Be careful because you are in a close relationship

[Caution] 7 moments that reveal a person's true nature / See what's going on inside the minds of ... 19:15

[Caution] 7 moments that reveal a person's true nature / See what's going on inside the minds of ...

[Unbelievable] Here are the problems people who yell at work have / It's best to leave immediately 0:44

[Unbelievable] Here are the problems people who yell at work have / It's best to leave immediately

[Reduce regrets] 7 ways of thinking that will make your life easier/Follow these to avoid having ... 21:03

[Reduce regrets] 7 ways of thinking that will make your life easier/Follow these to avoid having ...

[Important] 7 reasons why we need the strength to endure loneliness / The problem lies in seeking... 18:03

[Important] 7 reasons why we need the strength to endure loneliness / The problem lies in seeking...

[NG] Don't participate in bad-mouthing! Here are the unknown disadvantages 0:43

[NG] Don't participate in bad-mouthing! Here are the unknown disadvantages

【見逃すな】実はあなたに必要のない人の特徴7選/付き合うことがマイナスになるポイントとは? 19:28

【見逃すな】実はあなたに必要のない人の特徴7選/付き合うことがマイナスになるポイントとは?

[Why?] This is the reason why people who say nasty things don't leave you / The psychology of sta... 0:33

[Why?] This is the reason why people who say nasty things don't leave you / The psychology of sta...

【要チェック】自己肯定感の低い人に絶対注意して欲しいこと/自分を認められない時の課題とは? 17:02

【要チェック】自己肯定感の低い人に絶対注意して欲しいこと/自分を認められない時の課題とは?

[You get what you deserve] The fate of someone who doesn't consider other people's feelings / Res... 0:32

[You get what you deserve] The fate of someone who doesn't consider other people's feelings / Res...

【具体例】すぐ試せる心の傷を癒す方法7選/忘れられない過去を遠いものにしよう 18:05

【具体例】すぐ試せる心の傷を癒す方法7選/忘れられない過去を遠いものにしよう

[Remember this for peace of mind] How to be treated with respect by others / What is the wrong wa... 0:37

[Remember this for peace of mind] How to be treated with respect by others / What is the wrong wa...

【要警戒】あなたを離さない「執着する人」の心理と対処法3選/他人に踏み込ませない心がけをしよう 19:10

【要警戒】あなたを離さない「執着する人」の心理と対処法3選/他人に踏み込ませない心がけをしよう

[Important] Why it's better to let go of relationships as you get older / What are the benefits o... 0:39

[Important] Why it's better to let go of relationships as you get older / What are the benefits o...

【危険回避】今の時代に絶対必要な「自分を守る7つのルール」安心安全な生活のため心がけて欲しいこと 18:10

【危険回避】今の時代に絶対必要な「自分を守る7つのルール」安心安全な生活のため心がけて欲しいこと

[No more worries] How to think when you're afraid of getting older / Adopt the behavior of people... 0:34

[No more worries] How to think when you're afraid of getting older / Adopt the behavior of people...

【正しい手放し方】嫌な人のことを頭から消す7つの方法/意識しないため必要なこととは? 16:41

【正しい手放し方】嫌な人のことを頭から消す7つの方法/意識しないため必要なこととは?

[Important] Why it's better not to look smart in front of others / Simple points to carefully sel... 0:32

[Important] Why it's better not to look smart in front of others / Simple points to carefully sel...

【目からウロコ】人間関係の終わりを受け入れる7つの考え方/去る人を追わない生き方のヒントがこれ 20:43

【目からウロコ】人間関係の終わりを受け入れる7つの考え方/去る人を追わない生き方のヒントがこれ

[Common] How to think when you're too concerned about other people's moods / What's the trick to ... 0:38

[Common] How to think when you're too concerned about other people's moods / What's the trick to ...

【これが現実】性善説を信じる人が搾取される理由7選/人間関係で振り回されないための必須知識 18:50

【これが現実】性善説を信じる人が搾取される理由7選/人間関係で振り回されないための必須知識

[Caution] Problems with companies where people quit for some reason / What is the reason for the ... 0:45

[Caution] Problems with companies where people quit for some reason / What is the reason for the ...

【ここに注目】あなたを幸せにする人・不幸にする人の違い7選/関わる人をもっと厳選しよう 16:59

【ここに注目】あなたを幸せにする人・不幸にする人の違い7選/関わる人をもっと厳選しよう

【あなたは大丈夫?】今すぐ休むべきサインがこれ!自分のSOSに気づこう 0:43

【あなたは大丈夫?】今すぐ休むべきサインがこれ!自分のSOSに気づこう

【要チェック】与えても報われない人の特徴と対処法3選/奪われてボロボロになる時の言動がこれ 16:21

【要チェック】与えても報われない人の特徴と対処法3選/奪われてボロボロになる時の言動がこれ

【注意点】優しい人が損をしやすい理由/なぜ、奪われることが増えるかの答えがこれ 0:37

【注意点】優しい人が損をしやすい理由/なぜ、奪われることが増えるかの答えがこれ

【要注意】人間関係を耐えてはいけない理由と対処法3選/あなたはその人と一緒に居続けるの? 17:49

【要注意】人間関係を耐えてはいけない理由と対処法3選/あなたはその人と一緒に居続けるの?

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【やっちゃダメ】信頼を失う7つの行動がこれだ!改善しないと人が離れていきます 18:53

【やっちゃダメ】信頼を失う7つの行動がこれだ!改善しないと人が離れていきます

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【必見】基本一人でいい人の特徴7選/自分の時間を大切にしたいタイプとは? 19:28

【必見】基本一人でいい人の特徴7選/自分の時間を大切にしたいタイプとは?

9063 回視聴 - 1 日前

【静かな人が最強】人に話しすぎないメリット7選/なぜ口数が少ない方がうまくいくのか? 19:05

【静かな人が最強】人に話しすぎないメリット7選/なぜ口数が少ない方がうまくいくのか?

1.2万 回視聴 - 2 日前

『この状態は危険』今すぐ休んだ方がいい人の特徴と対処法/我慢すると、より回復が遅れます 18:24

『この状態は危険』今すぐ休んだ方がいい人の特徴と対処法/我慢すると、より回復が遅れます

1.5万 回視聴 - 3 日前

【絶対に尽くすな】あなたの善意を食い尽くす人の特徴7選/与えても報われないタイプを知りましょう 19:23

【絶対に尽くすな】あなたの善意を食い尽くす人の特徴7選/与えても報われないタイプを知りましょう

1.5万 回視聴 - 4 日前

【無敵メンタル】驚くほど心を安定させる7つの方法/嫌なこともスーッと忘れていくコツがこれ! 19:57

【無敵メンタル】驚くほど心を安定させる7つの方法/嫌なこともスーッと忘れていくコツがこれ!

2.4万 回視聴 - 5 日前

【今すぐやろう】内向的な人が人間関係で疲れない7つの方法/ひとりの時間で自分を回復させよう! 20:54

【今すぐやろう】内向的な人が人間関係で疲れない7つの方法/ひとりの時間で自分を回復させよう!

9646 回視聴 - 6 日前

【要注意】どんどん人が辞める会社の隠された闇7つ/求人はいいのに離職する問題点とは? 20:35

【要注意】どんどん人が辞める会社の隠された闇7つ/求人はいいのに離職する問題点とは?

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【納得】賢い人ほど他人に無関心な理由7選/どうでもいい人たちに振り回されない秘訣とは? 20:33

【納得】賢い人ほど他人に無関心な理由7選/どうでもいい人たちに振り回されない秘訣とは?

1.8万 回視聴 - 8 日前

【報われない】与えるだけの優しさで失敗する7パターン/奪われて後悔する典型例がこれ 16:42

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無理してはいけない!人が嫌いな時の生き方がコレ/人間関係にうんざりした時の付き合い方7選

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【これだけはやめて】人生を壊す「耐えてはいけない」7つのこと/ただ暗く落ち込む日々を終わらせよう 20:30

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